Month: November 2016

Body Language: 6 Things the Eyes Say in Nonverbal Communication.

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How good are your nonverbal communication skills? Michael Arhyle argues in his book, The Psychology of Interpersonal Behavior, that when people are around each other, they make eye contact with each other about 30 to 60 percent of the time.

If it exceeds this range, they are probably in love or about to fight. 

So just watching people make eye contacts you can make two assumptions. Of course, there are variations with culture and religion but this truth holds largely. Let’s explore 6 other things we can learn from watching the eyes. Continue reading Body Language: 6 Things the Eyes Say in Nonverbal Communication.

Life is all about having the right attitude

image-source-stockfresLife is all about attitudes. Attitudes affect our behavior but it is also true behavior affects our attitude.

Every time we go to a party, social or spiritual function- we sing, we dance, we laugh. Even if we arrived the venue as depressed or sad, as we unconsciously mimic the motions of singing, dancing or laughing, we trigger a new set of positive emotions and these in no time create a positive attitude.
By mimicking these happy people we become happy too.
You may have no control over why we were born or to whom we were born, heritage or family history and circumstances but we can decide to choose a positive outlook on life.
You can decide to alter our outlook from negative to positive and we should.
At the end of life, it’s all going to be about choices- what we chose to do and not do when we had a life.
And the best choices, they are made when you have the right attitude.
“Be not afraid of life. Believe that life is worth living, and your belief will help create the fact.”
― William James; 1897
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